I wasn't invisible.

I just didn't know I was wearing camouflage.

I'm Ebonie. Award winning master Coach, speaker, artist, mystic, experienced wisdom keeper, embodiment expert and culture maker. And I am living proof that the life you ache for is already written into you.

Before I was seven, I had lived in a house truck, on a commune, in France, New Zealand, Ireland.

I grew up in a stew of spirituality, philosophy, healing modalities and deeply embodied elders - from Astrology to shadow work, Eurythmy to EFT - surrounded by the weird and wonderful while all I wanted was normal.

So I chased it. Hard.

I built a career in TV and film production. I worked hard, played harder, burned out, retreated around the world, and did it all again. I had money, status, everything I thought I wanted. And none of it touched my real hunger. Because the real me my real desires and full self expression were nowhere near the surface yet.

The 2009 recession left me homeless and sofa surfing, massively in debt. With nothing to lose, I built one of the first virtual assistant companies in the world: My Girl Friday Ltd, from pure grit and hustle. Within two years: seventeen freelancers, global reach, industry awards. By every external measure of success, I was winning.

But on the inside, I felt trapped. Stuck. Numbing everything I felt but couldn't articulate. stuck. With food, substances, sex, distraction. My body urging me to listen. Me refusing.

Until I broke.

I sold my car. Bought a one-way ticket to Bali. Surrounded myself with devotional living, colour and femininity.

I made it my mission to figure out who the fck I really was and learn to like what I found.*

By 2014 I was a certified life & business coach. I built a brand, a community, published my first book Misfit to Maven, trained coaches of my own. 2018, I was awarded International Coach of the Year. 2019 an accredited energy + embodiment Master coach.

And I loved it; until I got swept up in the more is more culture, and started losing parts of my true self to an over-inflated sense of duty and my own patriarchal conditioning.

I was tempering my temper.

Dampening my directness.

Botoxing my psyche into something palatable; nipping, tucking and editing my soul, just like the women I was quietly judging for doing it to their faces. Still cutting myself from the cloth of not enough.

I'd built myself a gilded cage.

And every time something good happened, I shrugged it off:

"Oh, that. That doesn't count."

Then 2020 arrived; and with it, five years of the perfect medicine.

Business partners who betrayed me and tried to destroy my reputation. A therapist who abused his position and my trust.

My savings, gone. My beautiful penthouse, gone. Another country move, no income, and six months in the underworld with the old familiar failure stories looping at full volume in my mind.

And through all of it, the same pattern, finally visible: too much trust given away, too little kept for myself. Chasing external validation when what I actually needed was to choose myself.

The truth, when it arrived, was quiet and enormous all at once.

I kept chasing a business that would make me feel successful; when I'd already proved I was. What I needed was to redefine success for myself, in this season.

My experience, and living to tell the story, is what makes me the asset. Who I be, how I live through it, without avoiding or performing: that is what is magnetic.

That was the moment I decided.

Enough is enough.

I am enough.

I have enough.

I do enough.

Who I be is enough.

I took my Human Design experiment seriously. Synthesising four decades of psycho-spiritual study. Frequency, quantum energetics, Shadow Work, Gene Keys, Astrology, Numerology. Not spiritual entertainment: precise, personal operating instructions.

I stopped trying to heal the whole world. I kept my eyes on my own mat.

And as I became more and more full of myself, the correct people and opportunities became magnetised to me. That which was not for me, repelled.

De-conditioning; layer-by-layer as an alchemical process.

From workhorse to creator.

From misaligned yeses to self-advocacy.

From collapse to nourishment.

I learned that rest, play, beauty, and pleasure are not indulgences; they are the source of my magnetism.

And yours.

I realised I had been loving myself conditionally, only when I was performing, achieving, delivering. The Universe was simply amplifying what I was broadcasting.

So I changed the broadcast.

I stopped trying to heal the whole world, and healed my specific karma and insecurities.

I owned my experienced, my brilliance and beauty and became full of myself.

These days I feel successful no matter how much money is in the bank.

I am not trying to be 'normal' the way most people live although common, is not normal at all.

I am not most people.

I live a 360º life that fills me up physically, intellectually, emotionally and spiritually.

I love myself no matter how busy or unbusy I am.

I speak on stages in bare feet, wearing whatever I want.

I make art and write books. I hold space and facilitate.

I collaborate with the best wisdom keepers, culture makers and embodiment guides in the world.

I buy slow crafted treasures from my friends.

I chase my nieces and nephews toward ice cream vans.

I live in faith.

I wobble. I'm human. (A devotional spiritual life is not about transcending our humanness, but revering it.)

The wobbles makes cracks. The cracks are where the gold lives.

I am human Kintsugi

I am unfuckablewith

I know that I am always divinely guided when I am following my strategy, my authority, and loving myself unconditionally.

The journey is the destination.

And the riches are present in my day to day experience.

This is my true self era.

And it's the invitation I'm extending to you.

You are not broken. You are stifled.

And the camouflage comes off here.

Thirty years of service

All of that living: that's not just my story.

It's the qualification.

I've been working with wisdom keepers and culture makers across 17+ countries for thirty years. Visual and audio artists, authors, directors, designers, dance and yoga facilitators, political and social policy makers. First as an assistant, then as a coach, facilitator, and guide.

I've been the creative catalyst and confidant behind many of the trailblazers you know and love.

I've helped conceive and birth babies, marriages, businesses, frameworks, brands, films, and festivals. Supported people through selling businesses, relocating lives, divorce, amicable separation, removing and reversing diagnoses, changing their relationships with their bodies, their estranged families, and themselves.

After fifteen years of coaching and mentoring 1:1; bespoke initiations that have changed thousands of lives in ways that go beyond words; I now offer that depth of presence only to those already in, or ready for, their true self era.

I've spoken on stages to audiences of ten and to hundreds, moving them to tears and making them laugh in equal measure.

Mesmerising them with stories, teaching at depth without anyone ever feeling like they're at school. Leaving them in awe of everything life has to offer, and reminding them that their humanity and creativity are their greatest gifts.

I've written and illustrated a children's book, a novel, an autobiographical philosophical business and life guidance book, multiple guidebooks and workbooks.

My Human Design, Frequency (Gene Keys) and Astrology reading reports are so well loved that many of the facilitators I work with choose to partner with me and offer them to their own clients too.

I've made films, props, been a photographer, stylist, and producer. Made my own art. Authored my own books. I've been self-employed since 1997, and I'm still here: making things from my imagination (that I was told would get me into nothing but trouble) into real life tangible objects, communities, and callings.

In terms of formal training:

I hold a Personal Performance Coaching Diploma and Small Business Coaching Diploma (both with distinction, The Coaching Academy, 2014), and a Master Coach qualification in mBIT (Multiple Brain Integration Technique): a neuroscience-based modality that aligns the intelligence of the head, heart, gut, autonomic nervous system, and pelvic intelligence to support full self-expression and embodied decision-making.

I'm also trained in Transactional Analysis, cognitive behavioural therapy, hypnotherapy, IFS and parts work, NLP, schema therapy, motivational interviewing, and Nancy Kline's Time to Think.

I've worked alongside gestalt and transpersonal psychotherapists as assistant and facilitator.

I'm a certified Hatha Yoga teacher, Reiki Level Two, and a long-term student of 5Rhythms®, Shadow Work®, Kundalini, Qoya, movement meditation, Astrology, and Spiritual Buddhism.

I have a BA hons from Central School of Speech and Drama in Scenic Art, and in my first career I painted opera scenery, was a production buyer, art director, set decorator & stylist on TV dramas, commercials, music videos, live events and more.

I've invested deeply in my education, and learnt from and with many incredible teachers & practitioners.

Years of retreats, immersions, and initiations across thirty years of transformational work; from the large-scale sell-from-stage kind to the quiet, homegrown, pre-industry kind that changed me at the root.

I honour my lineage because the work I do is not created in a vacuum. It is lived, learned, earned, and woven from the finest threads of everything that came before it.

Lived, embodied wisdom cannot be automated.

Your full range, your depth, your years of quietly shaping the culture around you that is not background noise.

It is the whole point.

This list is not exhaustive but includes some of the those whose work has informed mine. I will always share my teachers, body workers, therapists, partners and recommendations when asked. I am committed to my continued professional development and transparency.

Virginia Rosenberg (Sky Scholar 1 + 2) Shari Thompson (The Human Design Business Certification: Including The Sovereign Code, Aligned HD Business Strategy & Embodied Energy Abundance Alchemy) mBIT Coach Certification and Master Coach Certification. Transactional Analysis Diploma. Harriette Jackson. Fani Purdy. Regan Hillyer. Elizabeth Purvis. Nadia Munla. Lisa Fabrega. Denise Duffield Thomas. Mastin Kipp. Woman Within® Weekend, Staffing + Facilitator Training. 'Libido Fundamentals' 5Rhythms® workshop with Andrea Juhan. Private therapy Independent Cognitive Analytic Therapy (CAT) IYN accredited Hatha Yoga Teacher Training with Nigel Gilderson + Chris Gladwell. Reiki Level Two, Reiki Level One MythoSelf® Process by Joseph Riggio, with Sam Riordan + Jon Nicoll. Hilary Adrain Han, Ben Joseph Stewart, Jamie Catto, Kaypacha, Gemma Went, Lisa Lister, Jacob Sokol, Juliette Clancy, Matthew Hussey, Louise Carron Harris, Meghan Field, Sat Siri, Ali Gilling, Michael Maisey, Jeremiah Abrahams, Liz Remande-Guyardand and my mentor and father; Alain Allard. I have been a long-term student of the 5 Rhythms®️, Shadow Work®️, The Gene Keys with Richard Rudd. Movement meditation, Kundalini, Qoya, Hatha + Sivananda yoga, Pilates, Fasting, evolutionary Astrology & Spiritual Buddhism.

And when I'm not working…

I'm a pussy-cat mermaid who can mostly be found lounging in a sunny spot, chasing a rainbow or a butterfly. I love to curl up with a cosy detective novel or a magic realism adventure.

My favourite place is bed; I travel almost everywhere with my pillow (I am, essentially, Linus van Pelt). I love making and serving beautiful food full of flavour and colour, laid out on delightful crockery, in comfy surroundings, topped off with a great view or company.

I splash about in the sea, collect shells and other wonderful natural treasures. I dislike the cold, damp, loud or repetitive noises (but, drum & bass is like acupuncture for my AuDHD brain), and am a hard no to any rule that exists to amplify extraction, productivity, or the diminishment of our sovereignty or personal power.

This is not separate from the work.

This is the work.

A life lived in full range. In the body. In the moment. With pleasure as the compass.

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Art prints, books & more; made to hold meaning, mark moments, and remind you who you are. Each piece is infused with archetypal, psycho-spiritual, and mythological symbolism.

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